Cats are very cautious. You might even call them anxious. Hence the name “scardy cat”. I call my anxious attitude paranoia. It’s a real thing. I’ve had several types and that’s why I can talk about a cure! Been there, … Read More

Children not so special Born into a traditional blue collar family, I was offered the 1950’s American childhood. It was complete with stay at home mom and domineering head of household. The abuse was probably also common.  Children were to … Read More

Time and work equal recovery. When your body has been through trauma it takes time to recover. When your spirit and soul are crushed it may take years. We are supper vulnerable as children and have little defense against abusers. … Read More

Is it the secrets that you keep? You, most likely, are totally unaware of your biggest faults, Some are more outstanding than others, If You are a wise person you will seek wisdom, As often as you seek a fresh … Read More

Let’s say you wake up one day and realize your days are numbered. You are one of 8 billion individuals all programed for an appointed amount of time to live and breathe on this planet. That is a fact of … Read More

If you don’t know what Im talking about get on your knees and thank GOD in heaven. Murder is horrific, rage is bad but suicidal thoughts are utterly debilitating. How do you learn to hate yourself so bad all you … Read More

What’s the one tiny asset you can’t LIVE without, literally. Hint: only 10 oz in the average adult female. This tiny piece of flesh has everything to do with your existence. Moment by moment you trust that this invisible muscle … Read More

They say “Be true to Yourself”.  Okay, what does that mean?  Be true to what you’ve been taught or experienced?  How can that be right?  It is human nature to put ourself first! Being true to ourself comes naturally.  Building … Read More

The more someone invests in you with time or finances, the more you perceive your value.  This may be a misnomer.  In human terms we only have so much to give each other.  Even those who proclaim their love are … Read More